Although the concept of “being a man” has been engrained in the minds of young boys for ages, the definition of what it actually means to “be a man” in today’s society, is vague to say the least. Nevertheless, it is the goal all males are supposed to achieve.
Society’s view of manliness usually includes:
1. being aggressive,
2. having a facial hair
3. showing dominance through physical feats, such as fights and seeing who can spit the farthest.
And who can blame us when the “MEN” we look up to are Chuck Norris, Arnold Schwarzenegger, the Captain in “Mulan,” and the guy advertising deodorant in the new “Old Spice” ad.
What rang true about Waller Newell’s argument, is that kids will aspire to achieve manliness as it is defined in our society. Therefore, if our on-screen role models are men like the cutthroat, womanizing James Bond, kids will aspire to be egotistical jerks that objectify women.
It is our task to try to define manliness in the best way possible, without taking it to an stereo-typical extreme. By doing so, we will change the way kids think of what a “real man” is. Kids will realize that they can be chivalrous, respectful and courageous without being a barbarian.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZSS5dEeMX64
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